Manipulations of the Mind..



As part of the numerous forwards I get everyday, today I happened to read one without deleting it.
It was story of a schoolboy asking his teacher as to what 'love' & 'marriage' was. It’s really a wonderful story.
It tells that in love we doubt, hope or rather blindly believe that that the best is yet to arrive when we wait on the banks of the youth stream and the ‘birds’ flutter by. And finally we realize that the day is over and that all the birds are home.

We wish we had done the choice, wish we had decided on the one though not the best but the best of our life.

Now looking at it in another way, all this how our mind manipulates the situation. We expect the best for us always immaterial of how good or bad we are. But still there is something within us which sometimes acts either too good or either too bad. So you never really know the difference. Your desire for the best sometimes comes in the way of your desire to be the best.
when she/he is not interested in you , the mind manipulates it as a sacrifice for your aim in life or something of that sort .This would also help you later writing and telling people how you could have had all the joys of life if only you had confessed.
This also helps you believe that the person always had something in for your and that you never told each other that.














And incase you end up with a Love life you have much wonderful reasons and excuses. Now you have the reasons for all the good and bad in life. You become or at least end up acting very good.

I know this is a bit bitter.I never deny that there are stuffs like ' untold love’, 'confessions through eyes' and things like that. Well leaving the ‘Life as it is’ , I stop here and let you read the story.


Pleases go through -It's very short & sweet. One day, john asked his
teacher, "What is love? How can I find it?"
His teacher answered, "There is a vast wheat field in front. Walk
forward without turning back, and pick only one stalk.
If you find the most magnificent stalk, then you have found love."
John walked forward, and before long, he returned with empty hands,
having
picked nothing. His teacher asked, "Why did you not pick any
stalk?" john answered, "Because I could only pick once, and yet I
could not turn back.
I did find the most magnificent stalk, but did not know if there
were any better ones ahead, so I did not pick it. As I walked
further, the stalks
that I saw were not as good as the earlier one, so I did not pick any
in the end. His teacher then said, "And that is love."
On another day, John asked his teacher, "What is marriage? How can I
Find it?" His teacher answered, "There is a thriving forest in
front. Walk forward without turning back, and chop down only one
tree. If you find the tallest tree, then you have found marriage".
john walked forward, and before long, He returned with a tree. The
tree was not bad, and it was not tall either. It was only an
ordinary tree, not the best but just a good tree.
His teacher asked, "Why did you chop down such an ordinary tree?"
john answered, "Because of my previous experience. I had walked
through the field, but returned with empty hands. This time, I saw
this tree, and I felt that it was the first good tree that I saw, so
I chopped it down and brought it back. I did not want to miss the
opportunity." His teacher then said, "And that is marriage.
You see john , Love is the most beautiful thing to happen to a
person, its an opportunity but you don't realize its worth when you
have it but only when its gone like the field of stalks. Marriage
like the tree you chopped, it's a compromise; you pick the first
best thing you see and learn to live a happy life with it."